Relationships

So when we hear the term relationship, we think love/ romance not so? However, relationships can span across a widespread definition ranging from Interpersonal relationships (spouse, family, friends, coworkers, etc) or correlation (mathematics, or one causing the other). 

Fortunately for you, we are going to focus on Romance lol 😁

According to Myers (2010), the sharing of love and sexual relationships for most adults not only fulfills a biological motive, but also fulfills a social need for intimacy. Love is one of the most profound emotions we may feel. As individuals, we seek to find a "compatible" partner to form a romantic relationship, as we believe romance is one of the most meaningful aspects of life that provides a sense of fulfillment. Afterall, what is a life without love??? 

However, like everything else in life, we have this popular saying "nothing good lasts forever". So after the honeymoon phase in your relationship where everything seems like a fairytale, the problems start. Arguments, fight, less communication, less intimacy, and the list goes on. 

What went wrong? well let me tell you, there are alot of factors that can affect your relationship. 

1. Cognition - We need to understand first and foremost that NO relationship is perfect. Not even barbie and ken or cinderella and prince charming. In order to have a long lasting relationship, one must be willing to put in that work. 

2. The "One" - ok, so alot of people believe they`re waiting on "the one". Cut that thought out from your mind. As i said before, relationships take effort. If you meet someone and get into a relationship with them, there`s a reason you chose them. So work with them and help that person become "the one". 

3. Communication - Communication is key to having a successful relationship. Without communication, your relationship can NEVER work. It assists in understanding one another, shows value between both persons, and it makes your partner more comfortable when approaching with issues. In order for communication to work there must be trust, listen to your partner when they`re speaking, and don`t interrupt them when expressing themselves. After all, you wouldn't want another person giving your partner advice, then your role in the relationship will soon become extinct.