Abuse

Ok so we`ve touched a sensitive topic that can span into many different types. Here we will provide an insight of what exactly is abuse. In later discussions, we will focus on the different types of abuse, individually.
So what is abuse?????? Abuse can be defined as the improper usage or treatment of something or someone, to unfairly or improperly gain perceived benefit or satisfaction. Abuse can be categorized or take many different forms from physical, emotional, verbal, rape, crime, aggression, domestic violence, substance abuse (alcohol, drugs), and so much more.

How do we identify or know abuse?

•  Bullies
•  Always needy with unrealistic expectations
•  Talk down at you
•  Always jealous
•  Punishment when nothing wrong was done
•  Hypersensitive and Aggressive

As i said before, abuse takes many different form that will be addressed categorically. However, a common factor to note is that all abusers, no matter it be physical, or emotional abuse, share similar characteristics. Thus some common signs to note are:
     

• Abusers blame the victim. As we said before, abusers never believe that what they do is wrong. So how can you get help without first identifying you have a problem?

• Violence often stems from verbal abuse.

• Abuse, no matter what type, damages your self-esteem and affects many areas of your life later on.

• The abuser feels the need to be always right and in control at all times.

• The abuser is possessive and may try to isolate their partner from friends and family.

• The abuser is hypersensitive and may react with rage.

• Victims of abuse tend to become substance abusers as they resort to drugs or alcohol to help alleviate the stressor at hand. (temporary satisfaction)

Check out my other blogs for more information and how to get help with abuse.